Wednesday 18 January 2012

"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, It's about dancing in the rain."



Another rainy day :( and do I hate the rain but I love the quote learning to dance in the rain and there is nothing so splendid as stopping for a kiss with the love of your life in the rain.

I have been bored bored bored without my beautiful husband as he started working in London this week and to compensate for my heart breaking I have been an absolute cow to him

Darling hubby said that he would call me at 7pm every night, Monday a bit late as he was still eating dinner (thats fine) Tuesday and you must realise by this point i'm gagging to talk to him it was even later as he didn't realise the time. I didn't answer I know!!!!!

He has forgiven me (JUST).

We have put down a holding deposit on a property in Stokenchurch, neither of us know the area well so brand new landscape for us. But its selling points are:
Close to all the kids
Close to family.
Close to friends.
Good amenities ie 4 pubs
A Huuuuuge cycling route for hubby.
Affordable (and trust me that has been the hardest thing to find in a half decent area).
A driveable distance to the Thames.
Low crime rate.
Possibility of day trips to Oxford, hooray!!! I have high hopes for my son to one day go to Oxford that's if I can get him off the XBOX!!!

However that also means paying for tuition as we'll be homeschooling and there's no way on this earth I am placing the responsibility of his exam results on myself. He has already agreed to go to a 6th form college for his A' levels (again if I can get him off the XBOX)

Hmmm now the bad points well again for my son) no cabled broadband which also means no fibre optic broadband and i'm seriously hoping that doesn't extend to mobile phone signals as we will practically be in the heavens in Stokenchurch.

Next bad point feel shattered already at the prospect of starting again, let alone repacking up the house, oh and getting around to telling the landlord we'll be leaving hmmmm!!!


and then there appears to be my own addiction with forever moving on, it used to be in one area now the travel / move spreads east, west, south wherever the compass flies. Just call me gypsy
ok maybe not quite as pretty as her lol!

I have a huge list of things to do but so far I have packed one box of cd's well you have to start somewhere.

TTFN!!!

Thursday 12 January 2012

Midsomer Living!!

After a really uneventful few days of calling estate agents and trying to book appointments, the move is not looking good. Not enough houses on the market and the ones that are just aren't very nice. So it will become a waiting game and as hubby starts his new job on Monday it will also become a can I cope without him for half of every week scenario. 

I think the BIGGEST obstacle in this move is my son who this year started his GCSEs and despite his objects at leaving Hillingdon, he made me proud by making the move and then going on to become popular in his new school and is top (apparently) in the whole year for maths (again a very proud mum). 

So do I just let him get on and finish his exams and then make the move before middle man needs to start at a secondary school. (Will we all be too settled ourselves in Norfolk by then??) or do we just take the plunge and get tuition for him to do his GCSE's privately??? and be able to move on a faster timescale.

Dilemmas  dilemmas !!!

So on a lighter note i've decided to stop stressing so much about this move and focus on a midsomer move??

What's that you ask??


I follow the tour of all the areas that Midsomer murders has been filmed (and we all know how beautiful those areas are) so the list is such:


Amersham Police Station
The Crown Hotel
Market Hall
The Maltings
Used in: Sauce for the Goose
Amersham
Used in: The Killings at Badger's Drift Death of a Hollow man Death in Disguise Blue Herrings Dead Man's Eleven Sauce for the Goose
Beaconsfield
Used in: Blue Herrings Four Funerals and a Wedding Ghosts of Christmas Past Written in Blood Blood Will Out Small Mercies The Magician's Nephew
The Old Tea House
Used in: Blue Herrings
St Mary's & All Saints Church
Used in: Four Funerals and a Wedding Ghosts of Christmas Past Written in Blood
Burkes Parade
Used in: Blood Will Out
Jungs Cafe
Used in: The Magician's Nephew
Bekonscot Model Village
Used in: Small Mercies
Bledlow
Used in: Death's Shadow Worm in the Bud Dead Man's Eleven King's Crystal Blue Herrings Dark Autumn The House in the Woods The Killings at Badger's Drift A Worm in the Bud Birds of Prey
Holy Trinity Church
Death's Shadow Worm in the Bud
The Lions Pub
Used in: Dead Man's Eleven King's Crystal Blue Herrings Dark Autumn The House in the Woods
Brill
Used in: Tale of Two Hamlets Four Funerals and a Wedding
Brill Windmill
A Tale of Two Hamlets
All Saints Church
Four Funerals and a Wedding
Red Lion Public House
Used in: four Funerals and a Wedding
Chenies
Used in: Judgement Day Beyond the Grave Orchis Fatalis
Chenies Manor House
Used in: Judgement Day Beyond the Grave Orchis Fatalis
Chesham
Used in: Written in Blood The Axeman Cometh Things That Go Bump in the Night Sins of Commission The Black Book
Church Street
Used in: Written in Blood
High Street
Used in: The Axeman Cometh
Chesham Museum
Used in: Sins of Commission (as Chapter One Bookshop) The Black Book
Sweet Memories
Used in: Things That Go Bump in the Night
Cuddington
Used in: Death of a Stranger Talking to the Dead Death in Disguise Death and Dreams Bad Tidings Shot at Dawn
The Crown Public House
Death in Disguise
St Nicholas Church
Used in: Shot at Dawn
Village Hall
Death of a Stranger Death and Dreams Bad Tidings
Denham
Used in: Ghosts of Christmas Past Death in Chorus Blood Wedding
St Mary the Virgin Church
Used in: Death in Chorus Blood Wedding
St Peter and St Paul's Church
Used in: Who Killed Cock Robin?
Dinton
Used in: Who Killed Cock Robin?
Westlington Green
Used in: Who Killed Cock Robin? Dead Letters
The Royal Standard
Used in: Death in Chorus Blood Wedding
Forty Green
Used in: Death in Chorus Blood Wedding
Haddenham
Used in: Judgement Day Birds of Prey Orchis Fatalis A Talent for Life The Maid in Splender Vixon's Run Shot at Dawn Things That Go Bump in the Night Midsomer Life
Church End
Used in: Judgement Day Birds of Prey
Hambleden
Used in: Blood Will Out The Animal Within Stranglers Wood
St Marys Church
Used in: Blood Will Out
Post Office & Stores
Used in: Blood Will Out
Mill and Lock
Used in: The Animal Within Strangler's Wood
Long Crendon
Used in: Garden of Death The Axeman Commeth Things That Go Bump in the Night A Tale of Two Hamlets Second Sight Garden of Death Blood Wedding Dead Letters Death and Dreams The House in the W...
Manor House
Used in: Garden of Death The Axeman Cometh Things That Go Bump in the Night
Frogmore Lane
Used in: A Tale of Two Hamlets Second Sight
The Eight Bells
Used in: A Tale of Two Hamlets
Courthouse
Used in: Dead Letters
Library
Dead Letters Blood Wedding
High Street
Used in: Death and Dreams
Marlow
Used in: Sauce for the Goose
Two Brewers Public House
Used in: Sauce fo the Goose
Little Marlow
Used in: Faithful unto Death Ring Out Your Dead Tainted Fruit Sauce for the Goose
Queens Head Public House
Faithful unto Death
Great Missenden
Used in: Painted in Blood
Little Missenden
Used in: The Killings at Badger's Drift Destroying Angel Who Killed Cock Robin? Talking to the Dead Death and Dust
Red Lion Public House
Used in: Destroying Angel Who Killed Cock Robin? Talking to the Dead
Pinewood Studios
Used in: The Axeman Cometh Country Matters
St Nicolas Church
Used in: Things That Go Bump in the Night
Nether Winchendon
Used in: Things That Go Bump in the Night Death in Disguise Talking to the Dead Garden on Death
Nether Winchendon House
Used in: Talking to the Dead Garden of Death
Buckinghamshire Railway Centre
Used in: Things That Go Bump in the Night Down Among the Dead Men
Cock and Rabbit Public House
Used in: Painted in Blood
Waddesdon Manor
Used in: Death of a Stranger
The Lee
Used in: The Killings at Badger's Drift Death of a Hollow Man Death's Shadow Death of a Stranger Painted in Blood Death in a Chocolate Box

Thankfully, the Midsomer Murders are fictional, but the villages and market towns seen in each episode are not. Location teams spend hours finding period properties in locations full of character and charm, the real stars of the show.
These two driving tours pass through Midsomer Murders countryside in South Oxfordshire, an area easily accessible from the M4 and M40. Travelling without a car? Rail and bus routes to the area lead to many walking and cycle paths. An overnight stay is recommended to stop, eat and enjoy the routes at your leisure.
Southern Trail, taking in Causton Playhouse and Badgers Drift Primary School, as well as opportunities to enjoy manor houses, village pubs, museums, river trips and a steam railway
Henley - Nettlebed – Wallingford – Moulsford - Goring - Mapledurham - Rotherfield Peppard/Rotherfield Greys - Henley (total drive time approximately 3 hours)
From Henley, head out through Nettlebed, where the hotel and the village hall have appeared in the series. If you want to start the day with a walk, detour to the Warburg Nature Reserve or visitStonor, one of England’s oldest manor houses, filmed in James Bond and featured in Simon Jenkins, ‘1,000 best houses’. (seasonal opening times)
Arriving in Wallingford, you enter the original ‘Causton’ in time for lunch. The Corn Exchange, in the much-filmed market place, appears in a number of episodes as Causton Playhouse. Maybe you’ll bump into one of Wallingford's actors, many are cast as extras in the series, or hear the local choir which grace many Midsomer services as the Midsomer Worthy Choir. The famous crime writer, Dame Agatha Christie, was President of the theatre in Wallingford and is buried at St Mary’s Church in Cholsey. For a step-back-in-time visit nearby Cholsey and Wallingford Railway, a GWR branch line still running steam trains on event days.
Period architecture typifies the market town of Wallingford, set on the banks of the River Thames. Bathed in history, take one of the town trails, perhaps starting at Wallingford Museumand finishing with the ruins of the 13th century castle and castle gardens.
Journey on through the pretty rural villages of Moulsford which featured in ‘Dead in the Water’ (an alternative lunch stop or boat hire is available at the Beetle and Wedge) and Goring- upon-Thames; then on to Mapledurham House and Watermill.
Mapledurham House has a history of filming, having caught the eye of location managers with The Eagle has Landed, Inspector Morse, Miss Marple and, recently, the new series of Midsomer Murders with Neil Dudgeon replacing John Nettles as DCI Barnaby. Historically it has been a scene of parliamentary and religious dissent and one or two past owners certainly met untimely deaths! Find out yourselves why everyone wants to film here and enjoy a cream tea made with flour from the last working watermill on the River Thames. Still privately owned, the family have lovingly restored this magnificent 17th century home, the water mill and its extensive grounds. (seasonal opening)
Heading back towards Henley, you have two detours to choose from: Rotherfield Peppard or Rotherfield Greys.
At Rotherfield Peppard, both church and primary school featured in the series. The school is ‘Badgers Drift Primary School’ and children from the school appeared in the filming. A good stop is the delightfully restored 18th century barn called the Herb Farm. Amongst its surprises are a beech hedge maze, pretty gardens, tea room and shop which demonstrates the versatility of herbs – be that food, drink, therapeutic or decorative.
Rotherfield Greys also featured and is home to Greys Court, a 16th century, wisteria clad, mansion managed by The National Trust and only recently reopened after a much-acclaimed two year conservation programme. (seasonal opening)
Back into Henley, head to your hotel or B&B and choose your culinary delight from over 20 restaurants, bistros and pubs in this vibrant market town. The Kenton Theatre is thought to be the 4th oldest working theatre in the UK, a Regency gem with a diverse programme ranging from the traditional to the one-off treat. Chill out at the cinema or enjoy a cruise to view this picturesque town in style from the River Thames. It's well worth an extra day to walk along the river and visit the Henley River and Rowing Museum where the Wind in the Willow's Ratty and Mole make a special appearance. Henley's festival season runs for four months of the year, taking in food, literature, film, music and, of course, the world famous Royal Regatta where Barnaby and Joyce attended the rowing in ‘Dead in the Water’.
(An alternative route from Wallingford to Mapledurham would take you through the villages of North Stoke with its pretty 13th century church and Ipsden, both of which are Midsomer Murder locations. Brought your golf clubs? Then North Stoke is a must for a stop at The Springs Hotel and Golf Club. Ipsden offers picture perfect scenes of village pub, village shop and post office, a cricket green and a great place to watch the red kites hovering overhead.

Northern Trail, taking in Midsomer Newton Museum and Causton Library, as well as pubs, churches and shops filmed for the series; with options to visit the gardens and nature reserves set in Midsomer countryside.
Dorchester - Wallingford - Ewelme – Watlington – Lewknor – Aston Rowant – Chinnor – Thame – the Miltons and the Haselys – Dorchester (total drive time approximately 3.5 hours)
The trail begins in Dorchester, one of the prettiest Midsomer county villages. Become truly immersed in the Midsomer Murders experience by staying overnight. Your choices are a 15thcentury or two 16th century coaching inns, and make sure you visit the post office; all are film locations. Dorchester Abbey was re-founded as an Abbey for Augustinian canons in 1140 on the site of previous ecclesiastical buildings. It displays traditional architecture from 11th to 17thcentury. A ‘free’ must-see in South Oxfordshire, the Abbey is open all year round. Remember Joyce Barnaby’s visit to Midsomer Newton Museum? That's the Abbey’s museum. (Museum and tea room seasonal opening)
Next stop is Ewelme, overlooked by many but not the Midsomer Murders film crew who have used this delightful, tiny village a number of times. With a village shop, tea room, church and school it’s worth a stop to take a walk around Ewelme Watercress Beds and nature reserve and to watch the video of watercress being farmed in the 1970’s. 
Move onwards to the market town of Watlington, where you can see buildings spanning the period from 15th century to modern day. The library featured as Causton library in ‘OrchisFatalis’ and it is worth taking time to see the church, pubs and shops before setting off towardsLewknor, a pretty brick and flint village complete with pub and village school.
Driving towards Thame, you enter the Chilterns Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty and there are a couple of options depending on your interests. Download a walking leaflet and enjoy the Aston Rowant nature reserve or visit the train station used in ‘Death in a Chocolate Box’  at the Chinnor and Princes Risborough railway (steam and diesel trains run on event days).
On arrival in Thame several locations are immediately recognisable from the series, particularly theSpreadeagle Hotel, 16th century on the outside with cosmopolitan comfort on the inside. Thame's independent shops and tea rooms have traditional frontages, there's a spectacular 13th century church, a museum, walking trails and a 700 year old pub. It is likely you will arrive on market day, with weekly markets, annual food fayres, festivals, fetes, cattle markets and the Thame Show. Time it right and play a championship golf course at The Oxfordshire Golf Resort, dine at one of the world’s finest restaurants, Le Manoir aux Quat'Saisons or stroll through Waterperry Gardens to learn its remarkable story.
Head in the direction of Warborough, passing the Midsomer countryside of the Haselys and the Miltons where a number of scenes were located. But make sure you arrive in Warborough in time for a ‘swift half’ at the Six Bells on the Green; a thatched 16th century pub which features in so many episodes of Midsomer Murders, regulars will recognise it at once!
Returning to Dorchester there will be time over dinner to decide tomorrow's agenda. If it’s more Midsomer (or Morse) you’re after, then Oxford is very close. Sticking to the countryside your local options include Wittenham Clumps, a walk along the Thames Path, or the Oxford University’sarboretum at Nuneham Courtenay.
(A detour at Watlington could take you to Turville to one of the most filmed pubs in England where the clues are found in the menu of Dibley Pudding, Chitty Chitty Bangers or a Midsomer Burger! The pub website also details a lovely walk through some of the finest Midsomer county countryside).

Linger a little longer - take your pick of places to stay and things to see in South Oxfordshire.



But obviously instead of going for a drive i'm going on a virtual tour (which then links into seeing houses prices, availability etc etc).

Should keep me busy for a while and before I know it hubby will be home from work every weekend :D.

I'll let you know how I get on!!

TTFN!!!!